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Sep 20, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Reena- I loved reading September's thoughts on facing mortality. It is also the month of my father's birthday (Sept 18th 1926) and the day he passed (Sept 8th 2014). I love that you think of your father every day, and I believe that is no exaggeration; probably 10x a day. You were blessed with an amazing person in your life to create a special relationship. And with their passing and your writing you inspire me to keep those relationship we still have on earth nurtured and enjoyed. Keep writing! We are reading....

Love from Philadelphia

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Dear Anne -- How special and sweet to hear from you! Thank you for reading and for taking the time to write to me about my post. Big hug to you for your dad. I remember meeting him when we all showed up in Buffalo with you. And I remember he was a doctor too -- just like my Dad. We are blessed to have had them. Much love and I am so appreciative for your last line as I send off my words into the ether every month...Hope we run into each other sometime again. Stay happy and safe. <3

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Sep 17, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Beautiful……. Enjoyed reading every bit.

And being able to connect with ones own loss ( my father ) with yours. Loved the last para, especially the quote by Gandhi . It summoned it up and made it complete thanks 😍

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Thank you so much for your comment dear Nas! Truly appreciate it when I hear from readers who found resonance in these words. Please do share this post with others who you think might like it. 🙏

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Sep 16, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Just completed reading the post. I could connect with your thoughts almost instantly and remembered the times when my own father and then mother crossed over! and how I dealt with those losses. (still trying). Celebrating life at this age too resonated with me, now that I have taken retirement, I too am slowing down. Thanks so much for writing this and sharing.

The one change I request you to make in your writing is to use some simple words for readers like me who studied in Hindi medium till class 11 and still think in native language. Although, I must admit that I got benefited by knowing many new English words today, as I read. But those difficult words, break the train of thoughts and feelings, hence this request.

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Dear Bheela bhabhi — Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to write to me. I am so happy to hear that these words resonated with you. I loved hearing about your own experiences and thoughts.

I jane also noted your request to keep it simple and will certainly aim to do so. Words should feel natural and communicate and like you said not break the train of thought. Thanks once again.

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Sep 16, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Thanks so much Reena, So glad that you took my request, I am now waiting for your next blog!!

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Sep 14, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Beautiful thoughts. I relate to this "yes, I will be gone, and so what?" Life and death Sun and shadow all the same a part of life to be lived with joy.

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Thank you dear Mona! I love your appreciation and resonance on this one. Have been thinking of you in your recent loss as well. All reminders to live deeply which you do so beautifully. Much love ❤️

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Sep 14, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Great reflections as always, Reena. Enjoy the pictures too!

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Thank you dear uncle! Your appreciation means a lot. Big hug to you and Najma auntie. ❤️

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Sep 13, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Vey well said and very true. Most of us realize mortality after loosing a loved one. While being aware of it we still get lost in this worldly 'maya' and forget we too are moving in that very same direction. Life is very short and made sweeter by its fleeting moments and all those people we come in contact with. Treasure every moment and every breath, because in breath there is life! Hugs

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Thanks dear Rithu! Appreciate your words and thoughts. So true and wise! Hugs to you too. ❤️

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Sep 12, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

Beautifully written, Reena💕

The timing of your post was uncanny as we’re experiencing a roller coaster of emotions after losing my dad last month (he was almost 97), and our daughter getting married last weekend.

It’s unreal how life teaches you to experience extreme grief and extreme joy at the same time, and still move forward with your head held high.

Keep those beautiful thoughts and words coming - don’t know what your source of inspiration is, but these are amazing! 👍

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Many thanks Arvind! So happy to hear these themes resonated with you. Deep condolences for your loss.

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Sep 12, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

At my stage of life, when losing a family member or dear friend is an annual occurrence, Reena's meditations and poetry put a spotlight on what is really important. Thank you, Reena.

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Thank you Carolyn! I am beginning to understand that. Much love and thanks for writing <3

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Sep 12, 2021Liked by Reena Kapoor

So profound and so true. I loved reading this, Reena.

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Thank You Sandeep! I really appreciate that it meant something and you writing to tell me. 🙏

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