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Thanks for this. I enjoyed the poem and indeed the Shoe is an apt metaphor for the man as well. The man has to adapt to marriage but knowing another and making her your Home in life is a spiritual exercise. It's not for everyone and not if you want to be entirely free but being entirely free might imply being Homeless and rootless. Only my opinion of course. Thanks again. Dave.

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I agree, David. A good marriage is indeed a spiritual home. Thank you for reading and for your lovely comment.

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Yes, marriage is good only if two people are right for each other. People sometimes rush to marriage when in reality they are not made for each other. This poem makes me think of those things. Good read!

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Thank you Luis for reading and for your thoughtful comments.

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This is very well beautiful and so many truths - entire personality changes to accommodate an ill-fitting 'shoe'

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So very true, but the personalities can change in a liberating way with a good marriage as well.

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Yes absolutely! Very true. Thank you Mark.

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Thank you Pragalbha! Appreciate it. 🙏

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What a beautiful metaphor this poem is and rings so true for so many marriages.

Loved it, as usual.

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Thank you so much Tina ❤️❤️❤️

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Reena, you revealed a glimpse of the Truth. Marriage between two human beings can be tough, but commitment, love, a little humility, a lot of forgiveness and asking for forgiveness is even tougher.

And there is nothing as comfortable as a good pair of old shoes.

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Absolutely Switter! Just as a difficult marriage can make us unrecognizable to ourselves, a good marriage which comes with love and commitment is one of the greatest gifts of this life. A blessing for generations, actually in so many ways. Thank you for your lovely comment.

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emotionally vivid

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Thank you Dan! So nice to hear that - and so nice to hear from you. Hope you’re thriving.

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Moving...

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Thank you 🙏

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